I always feel a little weird writing about what I'm about to write about. I never know the place of things people tell me and how they fit into this whole blog thingy. It's never my intention to make readers dislike someone in my life, I just feel like it's important to share real life experiences that happen to me, things you might not expect and my thoughts and reactions when things like this happen. Maybe you can relate to what I'm about to share or maybe it will help you realize some of the things you might say in your life. I've stuck a foot or two into my own mouth, none of us are exempt from that I'm sure. Again, I am not fishing for any sort of negative reactions here, I love my family, I'm just sometimes amazed at the things that come out of peoples' mouths.
I don't even remember what we were talking about, the four of us driving back from dinner last night. On Wednesday nights we have dinner with my inlaws and we had just finished a delicious Italian dinner and were heading home.
FIL: You know what I hate. That woman in the new Wendy's commercials. She is a large woman. She does not make a good spokesperson. When people look at her they don't want to eat at fast food.
Brian tried explaining that the woman was Dave Thomas's daughter and Dave Thomas used to do ads for Wendy's and was very popular and successful but it wasn't really working.
FIL: McDonalds doesn't do that, you think that clown is the owner of McDonalds?
I don't even know if my FIL realized how insulting and demoralizing it felt to be the "large woman" in the backseat of the car. I don't think he meant to hurt my feelings, but he did.
I tried finding something that said that Dave Thomas was too fat to be a spokesperson for Wendy's but only Wendy popped up and the comments regarding her looks were excruciating to read. When did we become this society that thinks it's okay to be so pissed off at women that aren't what society considers as hot. Dave Thomas supposedly did over 800 commercials and people loved them. This is a woman issue. I think it follows along with the news lady who got the hate email about her size. I was going to write about her but I felt like everyone did a much better job talking about that and I had nothing to add, but in this case I was right there in the back of the car while it was happening, he was talking about me, whether he knew it or not.
I wanted to crawl in a ball and be invisible. Did I go home and throw up my dinner and do jumping jacks until I fell over? No, I did not. I watched television and ate Halloween candy, felt like a shit, like I don't matter in the world. Thank you Reece Cups. My own personal heroin.
I certainly now know my FIL hates fat women, for the sake of being fat, and I now know what he thinks every time he looks at me.
This is what Wendy looks like:
She probably wears a size 12 or 14. That's like my goal. I think she's cute and I think her ads aren't anything to be annoyed about in any way. I also tend to think most of America looks like her and maybe it would be nice to see folks on television who look like you.
Along with the real Wendy ads they also use a younger, thinner redhead for other Wendy's ads along with the slogan, "Now that's better." I guess this is supposed to be a dig at McDonalds but considering they only use that slogan for the skinny redhead and not the real Wendy, I feel like it's kind of a dig at overweight Wendy, intentional or not, who knows. I just don't understand why the slogan wouldn't be used for both ads.